Sunday Sex!!

Welcome to week #4 of Sunday Sex Spiel With MrsMuffintop!

I often receive emails asking for advice on marital topics, most commonly in-the-bedroom issues, but include topics of every variety.  I don’t always have a good answer –or any answer, really– so I thought it would be fun to open it up to you guys, too!  The question/issue is posted anonymously, and you all get to offer your opinions and insight to the problem.  The only rule is to be respectful in your comments.  It’s okay to voice your opinion as long as you don’t degrade or bully others for theirs.  If you want to ask a question (remember, it’s anonymous!), email me: CLICK HERE and put Sunday Spiel in your subject line!


Dear MrsMuffinTop,

I’m a single mom, my daughter is 5.  Her dad isn’t in the picture.  I’ve been dating a guy that I met on  for about 8 months and he’s great.  I think we’re going to get married.  Last week, he stayed home with my daughter when I went out with some friends from work.  When I got home, I caught him watching a porn site.  I don’t know why he didn’t hear me.  I don’t know if I’m upset because he was watching it, or if I’m upset because he was watching it with my daughter at home, even though she was asleep.  I never had this kind of thing come up with my ex-boyfriend (my baby’s father), so I don’t know how to talk to him about it.  We didn’t really talk about it when it happened, but I don’t want to forget about it, either.  Has anything like this ever happened to you?  I don’t want to ask my friends, they’ll judge him.


So, how about it, MrsMuffinTop family?  What do you think “E” should do?  Let her know in the comments!