Welcome to week #6 of Sunday Sex Spiel With MrsMuffintop!

I often receive emails asking for advice on marital topics, most commonly in-the-bedroom issues, but include topics of every variety.  I don’t always have a good answer –or any answer, really– so I thought it would be fun to open it up to you guys, too!  The question/issue is posted anonymously, and you all get to offer your opinions and insight to the problem.  The only rule is to be respectful in your comments.  It’s okay to voice your opinion as long as you don’t degrade or bully others for theirs.  If you want to ask a question (remember, it’s anonymous!), email me: CLICK HERE and put Sunday Spiel in your subject line!


Dear MrsMuffinTop,

I just read your post about being raped.  I want to tell you how brave I think you are.  I have a story too but I haven’t told anyone, until this email to you.  I think that what you said about blaming yourself is something I did for a long time and I don’t want to anymore.  I know you will post this anonymously but for me it’s the first step at coming out of the darkness.  Thank you.




**I received many emails like this, all saying how brave I am and commending me for coming forward.  Do you think I was brave for this post?  How can we help T transition this into her “real” life?


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